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shasha
10 July 2012 @ 09:43
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A friend once asked me,

What are you doing about the things in life that makes you unhappy?

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shasha
18 January 2012 @ 16:45
媽媽這樣對出嫁的女兒說:

媽媽說,生氣的時候不要吵架,可以不說話,不洗他衣服 ,但是,不要和他吵架。

媽媽說,和 男人 吵架了不要跑到外面去張揚,他向你邁進一步,你就向他走兩步。

媽媽說,家是 女人 的大本營,發生什麼事情都不要走。因為,回來路的很難。

媽媽說,兩個人在家不要老想著面子,兩個人過日子,面子很重要?那在外面怎麼 生活 ?

媽媽說,不管一個男人多有錢,他還是希望可以看到乾乾淨淨的你在乾乾淨淨地家等他。

媽媽說,好男人很多,他不會去抱別的女人。但是這種社會,很多壞女人會伸手去抱你的男人。

媽媽說,女人一定要出去工作,不管錢賺得多或是少,工作就是自己人生價值的體現。你一直在家,男人有機會在你面前說:“是我在養你。”

媽媽說,你在外面工作,家裏的事情再忙也要做,不然花自己的錢請個鐘點工。家裏的事情一定要好好做,小孩也要好好教。

媽媽說,他為你做了意想不到的事情,你可以感動,可以誇獎,千萬不要嘲諷地說“太陽從西邊出來了啊”,如果這樣,以後他不會為你做任何事情。

媽媽說,誰都不是誰的另一半,你的想法不說出來誰會瞭解?需要什麼感受,討厭什麼事情,你告訴別人,別人才會懂。

媽媽說,他的父母也是你的父母,就算他的父母對你不是很好,你也要對他們好。因為他們是他的父母。

媽媽說,決定和什麼人在一起了,就不要去埋怨苦日子,既然你選擇了他,就不要去埋怨他

媽媽說,那麼有錢有什麼用,人呢?人在哪里?

媽媽說,我們這輩子能花多少錢?不要買什麼奢侈品,過得 幸福 就好。

媽媽說,不要唬小孩“媽媽不要你”,不要生氣地時候把小孩推出門,如果他真的不見了,你會很痛苦。

媽媽說,不要打小孩,更不要在外面打。

媽媽說,打打殺殺的愛很刺激,也很浪漫。但是,不現實。普通就好。

媽媽說,什麼都是緣分。

媽媽說,生命無常,要好好珍惜每一天。
 
 
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shasha
17 October 2011 @ 13:51
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falling slowly, sing your melody...
 
 
shasha
10 June 2011 @ 01:08
 Today, I feel like writing.

In a blink of an eye, six months has passed. I survived six months in the workforce. *claps for self - Boy do I feel old. The irony is, nothing has changed. I am still the same girl six months ago. Not sure if that's a good or a bad sign. Then again, hey, I survived 2 quarter end closings. And I feel like I seriously AGED. I do miss home a lot, but I thank God for placing wonderful people in my life... to think that I actually have a "family" away from the family. 


After a while, you'll start to see things differently. After a while, you'll learn that whatever you decide for today determines your "tomorrow". Life has taught me that sometimes you need to be a little selfish just so you don't hurt yourself. Yes, it has been a while, I am single. Every now and then, people pop questions that even I do not know the right answers to. All I can say is that, I don't need a "boyfriend" to make me happy. I still remember what gave me the courage to walk away from all that comfort, all that familiarity. I feel that life is more than just that. Like what imbrella  / @ywchn always say " I need something that's worth fighting for ". I have yet to find that something. They say good things come to those who wait. 

I haven't been writing a lot because I haven't been checking my heart to start with. Working has somehow ripped LIFE out of my life. My life is being in office on weekdays, eating, sleeping late, and getting up early for work. And on weekends, all I wanna do is to go eat out with close friends, catch up,... or else, stay home. It is not easy when what you earn all goes to sustaining yourself out here. I am not  even talking about rentals and whatnots. "Eating" itself is putting a big cut to my take-home pay. That is what single life does to you. You just don't care. (LOL, ok truth is because I don't have anybody to impress.)

I eat to feel good. And I feel good eating.
(Though all that feel good shizz ends right when you realized your input is way > than output. I really need to work out.)

Goodnight. x
 
 
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shasha
10 June 2011 @ 00:39
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I wanted everything to stay the same.

But feelings fade and people change.
 
 
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shasha
01 June 2011 @ 14:21

Thoughts that make:
you smile.. in/for a few minutes.
you happy.. in time.
you cry.. if you start thinking too much!
you poisoned.. if you can’t control them.
your mind sick. it’s too late to think/talk about.
 
 
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shasha
25 May 2011 @ 14:30
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shasha
16 May 2011 @ 13:59
Simply because I can't do it. LOL

I NEED TO BREATHE
 
 
shasha
05 May 2011 @ 18:45
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Today's word: SUFFOCATE
 
 
shasha
04 May 2011 @ 15:22
Instead of seeking attention everywhere, I should tame my emotions here.
Perhaps I should start writing. It's been a while.
Will see how it turns out.

A word a day.

Today's word: LOST.
 
 
♫ : John Mayer - Free Falling